It's as fair as any other observation on my part, and I may be right, or I may be wrong. You did write that you were "pushy" in your relationship. "Pushy" is a big word and can mean many things. Pushy behavior is not limited to one aspect of a person and probably spilled over into other facets you may not be aware of. It seemed to me that to hold onto a personal opinion in light of researched information falls into the same category as this pushy aggressiveness or stubbornness, and that led me to wonder if that trait played a part in your contribution to the deterioration of your relationship. I thought that was fair enough.