I can only tell you what works. It's up to you if you want to try it or not. For the record, what I'm posting isn't my opinion, it's based on reading and research. I also try not to get involved with intellectual discussions that aren't going to lead anywhere.
Now this is going to sound tough on you, and maybe it is, but do you think the tendency to argue, or the tendency to not be open to new information, new thinking, was perhaps one of the areas in which the marriage suffered as a consequence?
