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That's so true. There's "slow" and "slower". Then there's "old man driving a car", followed by "snail crawl" and finally there's the speed most of us find in our sitches: "glaciers move faster than this".




Thank you for that timely reminder NYS.

Tessa,

I see so many positives in your sitch. keep thinking about what works and what doesn't. YOur H is giving you some great direction.

One thought I've had with reading a lot of threads here. I think a lot of us "forget" that our spouses can have as many ups and downs as we do. That's why it's so important for us to gloss over their down days and just see them as "blips". And use the up days to sustain our "as if" attitude.

You "sound" much better Keep the anxiety and expectations low and PMA high!!




But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus