Fearless, I'm so happy you found me:) I just thought you might like a game of hide and seek.
Thanks for responding:
My recommendation would be to try and have some lunch/dinner dates, movie dates, etc. lined up with some girlfriends. That way occasionally you will just be busy when he stops by or calls.
This actually isn't too hard to do. My one friend and I have been doing something together at least one day each weekend, sometimes two.
Plus my life is going to get really busy here in just two days. I go back to work Monday. I work in healthcare and I will not have a set schedule. I'm hoping to start some volunteer work - I'm waiting on the organization to call me back. And I'm enrolling my dog in an advanced obedience class and possibly an agility class. So he won't know where I'm at or what I'm doing unless he asks.
Before this started and in the first two months after finding out about it, I used to make my plans around H schedule. I don't know his schedule anymore so I can't do that and I don't want to either. The last couple weeks he has been telling me his schedule for the week but some of my scheduling of activities happens more than a week in advance. So I have the potential to already be committed to a friend, a volunteer activity or a shift at work before I find out he is off and wants to do something together. Too bad for him, huh?
Well Fearless, I hope you had a good weekend and a successful run. I'll check in with you later............ TJ
