I agree with the others on this one. He said that he told you too much because he doesnt want to get your hopes up if he is not sure. I have seen that with my H plenty of times. Just as H said to you, keep doing what you are doing. I know it sucks that you feel you are in competition right now with OW...We all feel that way, but in the end and your R is saved, and years go by, this will be a distant memory. Not something that will be dwelled on. At least that is what I hope for. I long for the convo your H had with you. My H says nothing, lives at home, spends time with me all seems normal but he is having an EA with OW via the phone and internet. We have no intimate contact, but on the surface all looks fine. That is confusing!
You obviously have taken the information in DB/DR and applied it to your best advantage. Keep that up and work on yourself...
