Wow! Thank you, Ellie.

I thought enough to go online for help with my M, but why didn't I think to look into seeking help for his eating disorder (ED)?

I've registered on that site but haven't posted yet. I started reading some of the other threads first. Particularly one where the H has the ED. Very similar stuff went on here.

I've also read that I have to talk more about this with H. I can't ignore it and hope that it just goes away. I have to tell H how all this makes me feel; I cannot validate him in any way (not that I have been as far as the ED is concerned). OMG, that's going to be so tough! H told me he wants to hear from me when I notice changes in his appearance, but according to that website, I CAN'T DO THAT!!! I can't tell H he looks great or really good. What do I do?

Thanks again, Ellie. I'm glad you stopped by.

JV


Valerie

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