Hey, Sun! Thanks for the visit.

Believe me -- I am staying as positive as I can, and ESPECIALLY around H ! I see a HUGE difference in doing this. I may have my doubts every now and then, but I'm not showing it when he's here. I'm enjoying my H .

Yeah, I've thought about H's ASSumptions, and I know it has to do with how I reacted in the past. I now realize he will let this go in his own time.

I have been cheering H on when he's going out for poker night. I always tell him "win big", "good luck", or "go get 'em, Daddy!" I know he likes it.

I also have been focusing on the positives in my sitch as well as continuing to focus on myself. Earlier in my sitch, it was very hard to ignore the negatives, but since moving here to "Piecing" (a positive transition for me), I felt I needed to pay more attention to the +'s while noting the -'s and coming up with ways to work on those -'s. Listing these has helped me a GREAT deal! I can go back to these posts if I'm feeling in doubt and then realize, "Yeah, this happened , but HEY, this also happened ." I do this to keep up my PMA IF needed.

Thanks again for stopping by, Sun, and thank you for your support and thoughts. I always appreciate them!

JV

Valerie

"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown

"Piecing is not for the faint of heart." ~ sage