JV........Do they really play poker there until morning?? That would upset me also if my husband stayed out that late. Because I am sure he has to be exhausted and sleep the whole next day also.

I also wanted to ad something I read in one of your posts. You mentioned being concerned about your husbands bulemia. JV I would bring this up to him. This is a serious serious illness. This is something that is harming him. Has he always been this way or did it just start? Have you ever mentioned you felt he needed help. Maybe this is something you could bring to the attention of his family so they could rally in and help also.