Glad to see you made your way over to this forum....There are going to be some hard times, but stay positive and remember all you have learned so far.
You are right about H ASSuming with the poker night...If in the past you always gave him a hard time, it will probably take him a long time to see that you are not...I know my H will take something that happened once and say it happens all the time...That is part of the cloud they lived under during most of the sitch...But keep your PMA up...Things are looking good. Dont forget to see the positives. It is easy to focus on the negative. It is a skill that has to be mastered to look for the good.
Just wanted to drop in on your sitch and see how you were doing.
Maybe on the next poker night, before H leaves give him a boost of confidence to win, it could show him that you are on his side and not bitter about his poker outing. Something like...Win big tonight H....mamma needs a new pair of shoes.
