H called about 1am this morning. He said his phone was on when I said I called him, but he was in the casino, again, and there wasn't a signal. I said "ok". H must have sensed I was upset because he asked what was the matter. I told him, "Whenever I call you, and if you don't answer or your phone's off, bad feelings begin to set in, and I don't like that. Those feelings are even worse when you don't call back until hours later." H said that he was sorry, his phone really was on, but he just had no signal. We talked a little more, he said "IMY" and "ILY" then we hung up.
I talked to H again a few minutes ago. I wanted to know if I could just send his DL through the mail; it would be easier for me this way instead of having to wait in line at the post office or at Kinko's, but instead of hearing from H, "No, JV, I would prefer it to be done through Fed-Ex please," I got, "This is bulls**t! What's the big deal? If it's too much for you to do then give it to my mom so she can do it for me." Then H asked me what was the deal with my attitude, and I said (not DBing), "Maybe it has something to do with your attitude. I was only asking a simple question. You could have said no a lot nicer than how you just did." H said snidely, "(sigh)...Ok. Sorry." I said I was getting off the phone now then we said bye.
I only figured sending his DL through the mail would be easiest. He's going to be in AZ for at least another week; it would get to him in plenty of time....It would've been easiest for me that way because the baby isn't feeling too good; looks like allergies maybe. I'm trying to re-organinze S9 and S5's room (it is a disaster!), A/C maintenance is being done in 45 minutes, I have to go get S9 in 2 hours, come home and fix an early dinner for me and the kids, take S9 to Tae Kwon Do shortly after that, have S9's yearly review with his instructor, etc, etc, etc.....
Ok, I'm wasting time venting. I'd better go Fed-EX this now, with a very fussy baby in tow, before A/C guy gets here.
JV
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
