He told me that he had cut out early from working the home show with (bf) since it was slow and went to play more cards. H ended up losing some $$, but it was no big deal. Wait -- let me say that again. It was no big deal to ME, but it was to H. He was irritated and a bit upset about it. I'm thinking to myself, "It was only $(x)! You've done worse. It's nothing, it's done, get over it now."
Well, although H sounded upset at me, I told myself, "He is NOT mad at me. He is upset with HIMSELF, his guilt is probably only adding to it, and he WILL get over it in a few days.....He is NOT mad at ME."
I believe that's a BIG plus for me right there!
JV
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
