JV I passed all night reading your posts... and yes, i can identify so much with your sitch... my h is telling me he same.. he is confuse... he is not happy... he feels his happiness is somewhere else and not with me... but at the same time he cant make any decission of leaving... someimes he said he doesnt wants to mistake again (we had been separate 2 times before and he came back home always telling me there is nothing better than me out there)... i always told him i will not take any decission but that i wil be ok if he decide to D... i will cry a little, miss him, but life continue and sure will be a beautifull one... that i wil love to save my M but that i want to feel loved...!!... I accept i push and pressure a lot by R talks... maybe bc i am so afraid that the final decission from him will be D so why waiting for more time, hurting myself more... reading your post makes me think if maybe i will need to stop any R and wait till time pass... but at the minut later i am o afraid losing time doing that... so... isnt easy... is too hard... i also have 3 kids, they see daddy and mamy so united, sharing moments... they dont know nothing about no intimacy at all between us... thinking of them makes me feel so guilty and sad if this will end on a D... if you can read my post here... Andrea
