I just remembered something from the first call I got from H last night.
H has lost a tremendous amount of weight over the past year (for health reasons). He looks really good and feels really good!
During our phone convo, H was talking about the 7 pounds he dropped while in AZ. H said, "You didn't even notice, did you?" I said yes I did. He asked why I didn't say anything then. I told H I was sorry and I guess I just wasn't thinking. H said, "Well, I've lost all that weight and I'm in alot better shape now, but you've never really said anything." I said, "I'm really sorry, H. I guess since I see you all the time, it just doesn't hit me. I do notice though. Plus after having the call before you got here (H telling me he was leaving again), I didn't know what to say when you got here." Then H said, "Look. I don't care if we're fighting, getting along, playing cards, having , or whatever. I'm not fishing for compliments, but just tell me when you see any difference in me please." Again, I said I was sorry and I would do just that.
So...another positive, right? H is telling me he wants to be complimented much more. I say much more because I DO give him compliments, but evidently not as much as H would like.
Just wanted to get that down. Thanks.
JV
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
, or whatever. I'm not fishing for compliments, but just tell me when you see any difference in me please." Again, I said I was sorry and I would do just that.
