I know some of you must have felt that I was just desperately looking for the magic pill to solve the LD in my wife. Just looking for the easy out, instead of trying to solve the ‘real problem’. In the question of is it mind or body in my case body was it!!
The details are on her about the lead up to this point, but an endocrinologist finally prescribed thyroid medication for my wife. She started taking it last Thursday and the results are dramatic. (this almost sounds lie one of these spam testimonials I keep getting for different drugs).
Yesterday, she didn’t realize how ‘off’ she had felt until taking the medication and remembering how good she can feel. She told me it was like a fog had lifted. She apologized for not doing something sooner, and felt sorry for what I had gone thru with her. This is an amazing from the woman whoa few months ago was saying that this is just he way she is. The changes are both emotionally and sexually.
We had a leisurely weekend together. Hand holding, hugs for no reason, public displays of emotion, passionate kisses while walking down the street, feeling her hand in my rear pocket, wanting. It is great!! We went out to diner, instead of sitting across from each other, she sat next to me, feeling her press against me while eating dinner was amazing.
Sexually the changes were also dramatic, I have described her as low/no desire, and how it would take a long time to get her aroused. Over the last few days this had changed dramatically, Yesterday for example we ML before diner (been a long time since we had an afternooner), she initiated, shoed LOTS of desire, and was quite aroused before I even touched her. We had great sex where she was an active (to say the least) participant. We went out for dinner and had great time. After dinner I fell asleep during desperate housewives and was awoken to a wonderful feeling of her giving me a BJ. I don’t think I have ever been woken up this way, again she was very aroused, I even guided her hand to show her how wet she had become without me even touching her ‘down there’. The whole package, desire, arousal, initiation, fun and relaxed!!
Medically, I don’t know if it is placebo effect (hey like I care why?) but other low thyroid symptoms seemed to also have been taken care of. She told me that she is looking forward to calling the psychiatrist and telling him, it wasn’t in her head. Her OB/GYN told her to drink a glass of wine before going to bed, that’s all you need, family doctor told us she is healthy there is nothing physically wrong that is causing this, the psychologist said might be a medical problem but most doctors wont prescribe something for that. After LOTS of nagging from me she went to the endocrinologist who said that her lab results were not bad but he would be willing to try to cure the symptoms. YEAH!!!
