I'm very sorry to hear about your job, girlfriend!
But I'm going to take exception at one of your assertions...
Quote: I mean the one person that should value you, walked out of my life to be with another woman.
The ONE person who should value you above all else is YOU. I'm not saying you can't expect to be valued and courteous treatment, etc, etc, from the rest of the world but YOU are your biggest fan and best VALUER.
SO...After so very good pampering or a good cry or both...what are you (the one who values you above all else) going to do about looking for a better, more fantastic job where the people you work with wouldn't, for one second, reduce your job by a bunch w/o discussing it with you first?
YOU are a valuable asset, Pam...let's get you someplace where they know that.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.