I seldom have the words to say but I have discovered during this time just a comforting hug and support goes a long ways towards helping with pulling yourself out of whatever is going on. Used to I would have ran from emotional sitch's not feeling I had anything to say, now I try to just give some support and comfort. I feel that is a growth in myself.
I do believe I have said some unkind words about both J and D over the past two years!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
