I love what Michele said about reframing. I like that approach. It turns everything around, right?
When we were married we were always much more than someone's wife, so of course we are so much more the title 'divorce' ' suggests.
It's funny because we are all here because of our circumstances, but I don't ever think of any of my friends here as 1 dimentional. Maybe that is what attracts me to certain people, the fact that they are soooo much more than the way they see themselves. We all need someone to tell us we are unique and and special and appreciated.
So Pam, you ARE unique and special and VERY appreciated!