Boy you are a hard person to find, but I was persistant and finally caught you over here.
I was reading your thread to see where you were. I know, this isn't the most fun place to be, but look at all the great advice & support that everyone here has given you. In so many ways, we are the lucky ones. No matter how it may appear to you now, your husband will never have this kind of support.
I know that it may look to you as if everyone thinks that what your husband has done is ok, but believe me they don't. I'm sure people don't know what to say and from what I have read your husband and the OW have been pretty "in your face" with their affair. I think that you would probably be very surprised at some of the opinions that people have about this. When you are happy again, and people aren't afraid of opening up wounds, you will hear the truth. I would bet that you have a LOT more support than you could even imagine!
So I will keep checking in on you and hope to find you doing better on a daily basis.
Sweetie, listen to these great, caring friends here on your thread. I truely believe that I have made friendships that will last a lifetime. I've also gotten advice that at the time, I wasn't ready or didn't want to hear, but who better to give it than a friend who knows exactly how you feel? I might not always want the truth but I know that's exactly what I'm gonna get.
