You know, a very close friend of mine died a few months back. Perfectly healthy, just had a massive heart attack. I've tried to keep up with her kids, and husband over this time. Last week, after the first major holiday without her (Easter), and the birth of two grandsons, I asked how he was doing. He really answered me. " It's so hard. You just expect her to be there. But, I can see how far we have all come in the last month. "
So, Pam, It's hard. Whether it's a divorce or a death. You may have hit a little bump in your road, but you have grown. It's apparent to those of us on the outside looking in.
Coffee!!! It's our downfall!!!!
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
It's our downfall!!!! 
