Quote: Other times I read and think why couldn't D and I have made those changes and saved our marriage.
Because you were not yet at the right place to be able to exercise so much wisdom? You are no doubt a different person now, and to be able to look back on growth is a good thing, no?
Quote: Then I have to remind myself that he probably had the ideal of J in his mind all along and that was what he truly wanted even though he probably didn't realize it when he asked me to marry him.
Or maybe he is still running away from himself? Or maybe he does not get 'it'? Or... you see where I'm going?
Slowly
