I am and then I'm not. I sometimes feel sorry for D because I'm not sure he has found himself yet.
I am guessing he is fairly happy as he is keeping busy running to dog shows every weekend and probably training classes or training somewhere during the week. Going out to dinner and no responsibilities.
Last I was there he doesn't do anything at our house. His stuff was all there pretty much the way it was when he moved out almost two years ago.
But, deep down is he TRULY happy? Does he know himself? I don't really feel he does. His way of living his life is to live it through someone else in a way. Obviously this is my perception of what he does and he probably would say differently!
Sorry I signed off. The kids and I have a 4 am wake up time and I needed to get Frostbyte groomed as I think a friend is going to borrow him tomorrow for the herding seminar.
It is wet and muddy here and her dog doesn't care for those sort of conditions and mine don't mind them at all as they prove to me daily when it is wet and muddy out!
You have an advantage with the cats there, no wet muddy foot prints coming in!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"