Yes, we all do have issues. And we all deal with them differently as well.
I prefer to get myself together before I drag someone else into my life. But that isn't necessarily good for everyone.
I also prefer not to perpetuate my issues......and my STBX is back to his old self. So, our decision was right for both of us. Maybe wife #3 will deal with it better than myself and the one before me. For his sake, I hope so.
I owe you an apology. I'm sorry about the phone call a while ago. There's no excuse for thoughtlessness. I'm sorry.
I realize since you and he have been friends so many years, I will not impose myself here. But I felt the need to apologize and acknowledge your mind reading skills!
Peace to you! You are a strong and wonderful woman! I enjoy reading about your kids - mine are my strength most days!
