E-mail I received from a friend off the bb and I want it someplace easy to find again.
Hey Pam,
Yes, I think you are right it does take time to get through it....alot longer than we would like and certainly longer than I would ever have expected... But I am happy to hear you really do sound good.
I think also we always miss them, but the truth is we miss the person we THOUGHT we knew, not the person they REALLY are.
Because if they were the person we thought them to be, they wouldn't be treating us the way they are.
We are in love with who we thought they were not who they truly are. Do you honestly love the person he is???
I am betting not. He is most likely not being very loving, caring or devoted...to anything you care about.
Try not to be depressed about what happened to you....it made you the person that you are.
There are messages all around us all we have to do is listen for them and some of it will come through to you............don't be afraid to sit and listen to it. So many of us are afraid to be alone with our own thoughts, afraid of the answers we will hear, Hear it. There is a lesson there somewhere.
Peace tonight sista!!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
