Quote: The MC that we were (no longer...) seeing, suggested I not read those books right now, as they don't apply to our sitch, as we are not really in an R at this time.
Wow. I'm glad nobody told me that. Many of my goals for personal improvements are based on info I learned in Gottman's books. I can't imagine recommending that someone be without the valuable info they contain. Geez, just because it's not written specifically for your situation doesn't make the whole book inappropriate.
Jennifer, pig manure doesn't do much for weeds, but it's a great deterrent for deer and other herbivores.
Good job on practicing some successful conversations!
