I actually have 2 of the books (my original T recommended them). I have not read them yet. It is perhaps putting the cart before the horse, as they are about lasting relationships, not recovering my M (which is my focus right now). And... unfortunatly, I have left them at our house (I wish... as I am in an apt... and not at "our" house ). I will have to buy new ones here soon. The MC that we were (no longer...) seeing, suggested I not read those books right now, as they don't apply to our sitch, as we are not really in an R at this time. I think that's the problem with some of these seminars, as they are geared to couples in a relationship, or one that's rocky... not one that doesn't exist because of a WOS.
Forgiveness is the release of all hope for a better past. – Alexa Young
). I will have to buy new ones here soon. The MC that we were (no longer...) seeing, suggested I not read those books right now, as they don't apply to our sitch, as we are not really in an R at this time. I think that's the problem with some of these seminars, as they are geared to couples in a relationship, or one that's rocky... not one that doesn't exist because of a WOS. 
