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We are both miserable because we can’t seem to communicate or understand each other. It’s gotten so bad that we break down almost every time we try to talk.



So, quit talking and start breathing and smiling. You need to be flooding your body with happy hormones. It's not good for babies to have all the stress and unhappy hormones.

Circumstances can be a challenge, but YOU decide your mood. (I think I've related how peeved I was when I heard research to that effect on the radio years ago.) Happy people are that way regardless of the circumstances. Ditto with unhappy people.

Lead the way. S may or may not follow suit, but that's okay. You will be happier.


Me - 54
P - 59
Together 5 yrs
She left 4/2012