Quote: But when a man can't achieve O it's right out there for all to see, a limp noodle. Now frankly it doesn't bother me at all, and I told him so, except insofar as it bothers him. I don't reach O via IC. But it makes him feel terrible, like a failure as a lover, like a flop as a man, and anxious about even trying to ML.
It seems to be a man's identity, his id and ego and his total essence. I wish you better luck than I have had. Pls encourage him to see drs. I ache for you.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
