DL, as I was reading your post, I had a thought, and then you confirmed it:
Quote: he said he felt as though things have switched and currently I am more HD and he is more LD
Others have had this experience. Cinemanymph wrote about it a while back.
A word of advice regarding your H's health: don't be the diet/health police. It's not worth it. It turns you into Mom. It's his health, he has to take responsibility for it. How can he, if you beat him to it? Try backing way off. Just for the weekend, bite your tongue every time you want to say anything to him about how HE should eat, exercise, whatever. My late husband was chronically ill, and this kind of thing can eat away at a R.
I thought his "too late" reply was incredibly rude and insensitive. It physically HURT to read that comment from him. It's like he's punishing you for becoming more sexual. "You can try, but you can't take THIS away from me! It's MINE and I'll do it when I want to."
