Not sure what air of overall maturity means. If that means acting old, well I don't. I am mature and responsible, I definitely don't go out and party all night. Heck we have 3 kids, we don't have time to party. I work my ass off for the family, but it does not get me what I want.
An appropriate partner for her? That would be an assexual man. She wants a LD man! She wants us to focus on activities that are separate activities. I told her once that I wanted us to be best friends, and she thought that was kind of weird. And yet every book says that to have a good marriage, you have to be best friends. I want to be lovers, she does not want to be lovers with anyone. I think that if we broke up, she would be happy to stay single for the rest of her life. Afterall, she has her children!
