I have no problems. One of the things that bothers my wife is that fact that she is changing and I don't. I am just the way I was when we got married except for a few extra pounds that I am working to get rid of. Part of the problem is the changing, she feels like she is moving into her more mature part of life, and she feels that mature women just don't care much for sex, and therefore she is "Normal". We all now though that many mature women don't lose their desire. The truth is that great marriages are those that don't let sex dwindle, the best marriage (usually) are those that keep their sex vibrant and alive. So there is the dilema, she thinks that are sex life should be cooling off and finds other things more important and she can not understand why I don't follow suit. The problem is that I can NOT change, short of chemical castration.
