I'm beginning to wonder if CeMar isn't a troll (and not in the live under the bridge kind of a way)....considering he absolutely NEVER changes and he keeps us all running in the same circle. He keeps us addressing the same thing, over and over and over again.....yet he DOES nothing. So as far as I can tell, he's getting his jollies by getting people frustrated with him, his stuborness and his inaction. I'm really beginning to wonder if he's just playing with all of us.
CeMar, "IF" you aren't just playing with all of us and you really do have such a problem in your marriage we here on the BB cannot help you, you won't let us. The only way out of your rut is counseling. If you choose not to use any of the tools people have given you, and you choose not to take the route of counseling/therapy....then you only have yourself to blame for your situation, because "IF" you don't do anything other than read books and don't take action you are in essence saying that you are ok with your situation because you aren't ACTIVELY DOING what it takes to make change happen.
GEL - signing off on CeMar...and returning this threat to it's original poster (sorry for the hijack....CeMar has a way of doing that.)
