Ce, I don't buy that Mrs. Cemar's considerable libido went up in vapors over nothing. I agree with GEL that your attitude is adding to the problem and that you need to address your attitude before you try to move forward with sexual issues. Once you have addressed your attitude, you may have a clearer picture of what Mrs. CeMar is dealing with.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"