2-4 years? If marriage was your W's goal, do you think she would have given you 2-4 years of trancendental sex after you got married? Don't you think that the sex would have dried up long before the 2-4 year mark? Something besides bait and switch is going on, CeMar.

Have you read Sex Starved Marriage? If you haven't, you should get ahold of a copy, pronto. SSM explains about what you percieve to be bait and switch and the LD partners aversion to sex is not personal.

Your posts indicate that you are willing to try any sexual position or any kinky technique to please your W. It sounds like you know your sex manuals backwards and forwards. A willingness to hear from her that you could be doing things outside your realm of possibility to turn her on could go a long way to rekindling that fire that you so fondly remember.

I don't mind the sun sometime The images it shows I can taste you on my lips And smell you in my clothes Cinnamon and Sugar And softly spoken lies You never know just how you look Through someone elses eyes BHS-"Pepper"