Everything changd when her sex drive disappeared! Her change in sex drive changed EVERYTHING about her. She pulled the typical bait and switch, 2-4 years of good sex, and then her sex drive just vanished. The source of the problem, who knows. Take your pick from the following list:
Having 3 kids, youngest is now 8. She has hypothirodism which causes body image problems (fat). She was neglected and maybe abused as a child. She is premenopause(45). Relationship issues (although I think her desire left long before they became prevalent).
There are possbily many reasons for her LD. I have asked her over the years as to what causes it, and her answers have been different. I hate to say this, but I would bet that most LD people have no freaking clue as to the true source of their LD, so how in the heck are us HD's supposed to help fix the problem! AS for BJ's, she did them early in our relationship, but now finds them disgusting. She claims that she now realizes what other things come through the penis and this she finds disgusting, but she is a health major, she has ALWAYS known this. From what I have read, it is very common for women to use BJ's to lure their husbands in, and once the wedding vows are done, she no longer has to do such gross and disgusting things.
