Who says you have to have speedy orgasams. I personally LOVE to drag the contact out. I would love to have LM sessions on occassions that go on for hours (just not every time). My problem is my wife orgasams fairly easily and her goal is to get the sex over and get back to sleep (how romantic!). If the guy is orgasaming to early for you, have him think about something else while LM. If I want to drag it out, I think about visits to the dentists. That will take my focus of Mr. Willey. I can then outlast the wife.