My list of things that I want is actually FAR LESS then what she used to do. Remember, my wife USED to be HD, that is one of the reasons I married her. For the first four years we were together, we had sex everyday. She was also into fellatio. I was lead to believe that she LIKED giving BJ's. She had TRUE desire. So what I am asking for is only HALF the woman she used to be. I kind of thought that we were all supposed to compromise, but from what I am reading, compromise on the issue of sex seems to mean that the guy give up 90% and settle for 10%, if even that much. This does not seem like compromise to me. So tell me, what is a true compromise, I want sex everyday, she never wants it. I want oral sex, she doe not want to give it. What is the compromise that will make us BOTH happy? I truly am stumped on this one.