BJ's are important. They show your DESIRE for your spouse. I give my wife all the oral sex she can handle as well as annalingus. I am not inhibited in any way, I just want the same from her. I would never consider marriage to a women that does NOT like to give BJ's, as this would indicate possible sexual hangups. My wife used to give them to me, no she says they are disgusting, so again, I was the victim of Bait and Switch. When my wife refuses to pay attention to the most important part of my body, how can I not see this a rejection of me. How can you love someone and yet not love their body? This makes absolutely no sense to me. The most important part of sex is to give as much pleasure to your spouse, it's not about receiving pleasure. It's about the giving, but when it is apparent that your spouse is not giving, it makes you really think about what your value is to your spouse. HD men want sexually confident women, and if you do not like giving BJ's, you very likely are not a sexually confident women.
