CM, I' don't think we are out of the norm. I think we are not represented by Hollywood, no movies about the gal cept school teachers and pedifilia and the new cougar concept, anyhow that's realitively recent. What LDH would have the cojones to admit it?
Our earlier days of Puritianism indicated that women did not enjoy intercourse, it was for procreation only. That ideal, still prevelant in some societies, lingers to labeling the girl as being a "bad girl" or worse unless she is married. This tends to silence her. I am told by attorneys that in the realm of sexual differences, the filing is 50/50 for who is LD and who isnt.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay