Quote: The less sex I have the less I think about it; the more I have, the more it's on my mind.
This is exactly the way a LD would be (so this is kinda normal). For men, the less sex they have the more they will think about it. For women, the less sex they have the less they will think about it. So in effect, you LD level will INCREASE your LD. For women, literally, practice makes perfect. You want to bring down his HD, then do him everyday! At the same time, this will INCREASE your desire for sex. Did you now that women have a GREATER capacity for sex then men. You might actually get to the point where he would not be able to keep up with you! (I'd kill to have that problem). I saw something on Oprah where the women were intentionally keeping themselves LD because they were AFRAID of what they might do if they became HD. They literally did not trust themselves to handle HD the right way. And many of the women in the audience AGREED with this. As a man, I am not sure I understand FEARING HD.
As the His Needs/Her Needs workbook says, the solution to mismatched sexual desires where the women is lower is that the women must develop her OWN need for sexual fulfillment, do not concentrate on filling his!! What your husband needs is a sexually confident women, not just sex!
