Is it possible to plan for an evening after dinner? Can you think lounging bath and "make pretty" leaving time for the viagra for him, news, soothing time for you for mood development and scented candles and other parafanalia[sp] that it of interest to you two? Some of the gals here call it "date night" an all the young giddy things that surround it.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay