"Because of the feelings stirred up by the errant email (which he says is just a symptom of the fact that our marriage has issues around sexual frustration and has almost nothing to do with the "OW" at all"
doglover, My W said those exact words, verbatim, as a cover for her A. She said it wasn't about him, and now that she has been caught red handed, she says her A isn't about me. HMMMMMMM
Look into it before accepting his words. An email is just an email, but many emails, or an empty cache and sent items folder are red flags. Look for the flags. If H is completely accountable, halleluiah!
