Quote: I don't know how I can work on LD if it just isn't on my mind.
With a soft voice, I will point out to you that this is a copout.
When your children were young, you didn't get to just forget to feed them because it wasn't on your mind. You planned for meals. You can plan for sex in a similar way.
You have the ability to impact your mind and aren't a mere slave to whatever random thought may or may not pass through.
The question isn't whether or not your drive is on your mind, the question is whether or not you will step up to the plate and take an active part in not allowing your marriage to fall to the wayside.
