Martha, Pam, Eyes,

Thanks for the visits ladies! I can't believe how little time I have to be on the BB of late...still about 15 minutes in the AM to cover all of my online needs Just enough time to skim a bunch of threads....goodness help me if I actually want to try to respond!

I'm not sure when it will get easier...maybe as the job settles in a bit...or when I get more organized. I'm still lurking, though.

The job is going well. I'm learning a lot and that will continue for the forseeable future. Amazingly, I rarely think of my "old" job.

Things at home are great. h has continued to be amazingly supportive. Last weekend h was sick which always tests my DB mettle...and then he was hyper critical for a few days (while I was hyper sensitive!). We got thru it fine, though and now we're back in a very positive state. Got to spend a lot of time together this long weekend which was definitely nice.

Started listening to "men are from mars" again last week. It just settles my mind so much and reminds me that backing off from h (in terms of nudginess, etc) is always a good thing. I need that book tatooed on my butt.

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.