Congratulations on the last day of the old chapter and the anticipation of starting a new one! You seem to be very much appreciated by your colleagues and valued a heck of a lot. That they are so supportive and happy for you speaks volumes for you.
I do wonder what triggered your suspicion, etc. - is it a new environment for your H - one in which he could be attracting the attention of successful, smart women, or, simply, making new friends? I know that I am often nervous and overly watchful when S. is in a new situation with new people that I'm not a part of. I've been guilty of this even when he goes to do a make-up shift at the coop (new people, new opportunities to meet attractive people with similar interests...)! Embarrassing to say, but it is a trigger for those of us who have been the victims of infidelity.
But it's great that it seems to be in remission. Best of luck to you as you forge ahead with your new job!
