Quote: Ellie -- yah, as much as I try to convince myself that I can handle it...sometimes the appearance of Mr. Grumpy just really throws me for a loop...I'm not saying h can't be in a bad mood but when it's the "always" "never" thing that gets thrown at me it's really tough..particularly if I'm having a tough time myself. I try to keep myself upbeat but also not put too much pressure on him to get out of his bad mood...I think I need to remember that one thing that works well for us is ACTION (getting out, doing something) though it's often hard to motivate him to do that
Just dropping in from "We're separated, now what", and this caught my eye. I go through the same thing as you do with trying to weather the grumpy storms while trying to "work it out" with my W. Last few days have been bad with it. . .after a few good weekends after the "talk" and claim that she wants to work things out.
Let me know if you have any secrets for staying up with your PMA!
