2much -- I love that you found something on my old threads that resonated with you! Copy away!
Hopeful -- hey, you! I was psyched to see your new thread! I'm glad you made the leap.
Ellie -- yah, as much as I try to convince myself that I can handle it...sometimes the appearance of Mr. Grumpy just really throws me for a loop...I'm not saying h can't be in a bad mood but when it's the "always" "never" thing that gets thrown at me it's really tough..particularly if I'm having a tough time myself. I try to keep myself upbeat but also not put too much pressure on him to get out of his bad mood...I think I need to remember that one thing that works well for us is ACTION (getting out, doing something) though it's often hard to motivate him to do that!
********** So, having a busy time of it...I told my team today that I'm leaving...they took it really hard but at the same time were really supportive. A few people have stopped by and have had such kind things to say...they really are amazing people!
So, I'm trying to get all my stuff cleaned up here (passing along info to new interim manager, etc). Tomorrow is definitely going to be busy one!
This weekend was hectic...Friday night we stayed in...I was surprised by that and h asked me if I was mad at the end of the night...I guess I was being really quiet/lowkey. Saturday we went for a long hike then that night we went to a party for a friend. I had a good time but h didn't -- too much "cheese" factor for him! Sunday we slept late and then I was gone for a lot of the day visiting my sister. h worked his butt off while I was gone -- did SO MUCH around the house! Last night we went to see "Cinderella Man" -- I thought it was really good.
h started his new job today so I'm off to meet him. I can't wait to hear ALL about IT!!!!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.