Sage,

Quote:

"that's ok...you always do that".

Sigh.
NO. I USED to always do that.

I don't ALWAYS do that now. I really don't.

But, I need to take his words to heart, right? He didn't say them in anger...just observation.




How did you help him see or how did he come to see that you DON'T always do that?

This is ,as you know, is one of the most frustrating things in my sitch...having H stuck in the past, in how it used to be......

As always, LOTS of good stuff here Sage...wish I had more time...

Minnie (who really should get back to work if she doesn't want to be here all night)