Jo, Sometimes I get a "gut feeling" and it comes true. For an example when CPS took the kids because of her dogs last year, I asked them to tell her no dogs because if I did I knew she would D me. I told the CPS case worker "please tell W that she can't have dogs or animals, because if I do she will D me" They said "no thats your resposibility".
This was at the end of May 2004 and on Jan 5, 2005 we were D.
Tons of things happen to me like this.
My gut feeling now is to let her do what ever she wants, keep calm no matter what happens, put it in Gods hands and it will work it self out. Its a crazy feeling but also a peaceful feeling. I see her making a lot of mistakes and by me letting her fall without advice on what to do and not to do, she will one day come back as a real W and a good mother.
I have always wondered where these thoughts and feelings come from?
