Well, I'm back from my friend's house.

I went there after the IVF clinic and dd4 played with my friend's kids.

We had a nice meal and in the evening me and my friend got through 2 bottles of champagne and talked about my sitch most of the night.

I stayed the night and this morning she gave me an aromatherapy massage (she's a professional aromatherapist and reflexologist). My shoulders were just completely knotted up with tension and it really helped.

I'm back home now and exhausted (she said the massage would make me exhausted) so I'm going for a nap now.

I am ignoring my sitch atm because it stresses me and I'm better when I ignore it.

Thanks everyone for the birthday wishes,and Jim, no one has ever said they will stick me with a needle before

Jo.