Don't worry about being overly negative - we've all probably heard it all before and are not a bunch of fragile eggs!
You definitely ought not to back away from support when you might need it most. The door remains open, okay?
If H is lurking on this BB, that is not an overly negative sign. Shows interest in you and what you're doing. A bit more of his control stuff, but you already know about that. We each face our own adult decisions, and are responsible for our own actions, so don't worry about sending us over the edge like a crowd of lemmings! Most of us probably do the exact opposite of the crowd or what we're told - hence us being here!
Most of us probably do the exact opposite of the crowd or what we're told - hence us being here! 